The Rome Diaries

We are back in Rome. Soporific Rome with her unbearable beauty that squeezes my heart with barely contained pleasure, ancient temples and theaters lurking around every corner. It is 4.30 in the morning and I am wide awake because I am just so and Adi is patting me to go back to sleep but I feel like pouring my heart out for it is brimming. From arriving in a boutique hotel in the old quarters of the city where Pope Julius II had wanted his architect Donato Bramante, the Renaissance master, to design the Palazzo dei Tribunali, the city’s justice system. It was an incomplete mission. The stone seats of the unfinished courthouse remain as a quiet reminder of the gap between aspiration and attainment. Every master must have a few tucked into his kitty of achievements.

We walked around in the evening after an afternoon spent drinking Champagne with tuna and cream cheese canapes. The hotel surprised us, throwing in a couple of flaky pastries, their hearts filled with apple and cinnamon, some profiteroles and chocolates, because it was in lieu of the six years we have been married. Eight years made up of frustrating, quiet, joyous, unsettling and delirious moments. For life is such a wonderful concoction of the drama and the dull. One cannot exist without the other and really it would be tedious with only the highs to ride. There are nudges of mortality from time to time with close relatives shedding their mortal lives behind, reminding us that ‘time’s winged chariot’ is ‘hurrying near’, undeniable and as tangible as this plush hotel bed I find myself in.

The neighbourhood around us is networked by medieval alleys aged by the stories of the giubbonari (jacket-makers) who worked in one, the calderari (coppersmiths) in another narrow cobbled one, the baullari (trunk-makers), the cappellari (hat-makers) and so on. You get the drift. The many workers who served the wealthy who lived in the palazzi in the area. At the end of our street lived Raphael once. I doubt the streets have changed much, the faded pastel houses and shuttered windows silent witnesses to the life stories of generations unfolding within.

At an intimate osteria we stopped for a spot of dinner. Fine, rich Merlot fished off the high shelves of the establishment by its owner with a bottle grabber and presented with a flourish to go with the carciofi alla romana which is stewed artichoke beloved of the ancient Romans, grilled seafood, creamy pasta and succulent chicken cooked in sweet Port, his craggy face wreathed with smiles as we thanked him for giving us a table meant for four. He had turned away customers even though we were about to finish up and he said, “No hurry, okay? Food is to be enjoyed. You walked in, I liked you both and I wanted you to relax.” A small place filled up with his relatives, their large families divided between the old and young tables.

Simple flavours married together with a dexterous touch. Italian food in an osteria tucked into the quiet alleys of Rome with its unassuming charm and modest menu, a beaming owner keeping an eye on his diners, dropping by to chat in bits,…then pressing our noses to windows of antique shops, armed with giant cones of gelato and swinging by that great Baroque masterpiece of Gian Lorenzo Bernini, the Fontana dei Quattro Fiumi at Piazza Navona, fingers freezing and nose tingling with the sudden icy winds that swept through the empty square. A few locals walked through the cobbled square. The crowds of summer have melted away. Vine-clad walls of townhouses towered above us in the alleys, festooned by canopies of fairy lights, as we passed in the shadows of the chiesas and returned to our hotel room to fall into bed with jasmine tea and exhaustion.

Carciofi alla Romana (stewed artichokes as the old Romans liked it)
Grilled seafood
Cacio e pepe

At Piazza Navona
Piazza Navona
Bernini’s fontana

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  1. AJ avatar

    Wow! That must be some trip! I think my history living heart just did a happy dance. I love what you say about life needing ups and downs- I’ve often thought that it’s the lows that make the highs seem even better:)

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Wise words, AJ. The last thought often occurs to me. I do not want the following days to pass too soon. xx

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      1. AJ avatar

        No enjoy every second! They’ll make for awesome memories:)

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      2. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Thank you my sweet! I endeavour. xx

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  2. Natalie Vinh avatar

    To be in Rome! I must admit, I’m quite jealous of your travelling lifestyle. Hope you’re having a lovely time!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Heh Natalie.The city is charming beyond words. To you being here soon. xx

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  3. Osyth avatar

    Be still my trembling heart …. I have tears sparkling my eyes as they drink in this heavenly post! Memories I had forgotten I even had jumpstarted in the most joyous way! Xx

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Come right over to your home! She calls out, comeee child. Thank you for indulging my bleary-eyed notes. xx

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      1. Osyth avatar

        Tell her to hold that thought …. I won’t be long now. I actually loved this post – your sleepy voice was so excited … to be treasured xx

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      2. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Thank you my lovely! I am still sleepy after a late night of drinking with friends here but oh yes I am raising my glass to your return soon. xx

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      3. Osyth avatar

        It shall be so. Rest your weary head, dear girl. Coffee might help, n’est-ce pas? Xx

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      4. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Always! I did in fact need a few to feel human again 🙂 Sorry for the delayed replies though. xx

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      5. Osyth avatar

        Don’t be sorry … it’s always harder when travelling. I still havent written that email and am hiding behind Paris as an excuse ? xx

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      6. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Okay then…I am barely able to open Bertie (my macbook)! Take your time my lovely lady. Paris is the best excuse possible. Please order an extra creme brulee for me! xx

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  4. 3sistersabroad avatar

    So jelly of you xx…I could feel your heart beating with the love of Rome surrounding you with its love xx

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      You found the perfect words 🙂 xx

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  5. amindfultravellerblog avatar

    Ahhh, Bella Roma. Have a gelato for me Arundhati. 😉
    Will you guys be there for Christmas? Xx

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Lorelle, I shall have a gelato today for you 🙂 We are heading to India next to meet family for Christmas and the beginning of the new year. Alas, we have to leave Rome soon. xx

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      1. amindfultravellerblog avatar

        Oh please do. I am there with you in thoughts Arundhati. Must be quite cold there now, brrrr. Have a safe trip and enjoy your stay with your loved ones at this festive time. Merry Christmas lovely ❤️

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  6. crystalsandcurls avatar

    This is so unbelievably beautiful – Rome is most definitely on the list of places to go now! Also, happy sixth anniversary; here’s to many many more! I hope you’re having a wonderful Christmas so far xx

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hey Mia, thank you for the wishes. I am having a fabulous time here in Rome. I hope you are totting up the good times too wherever you are travelling. Rome is unmissable, my lovely. xx

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  7. paulliverstravels avatar

    Sometimes I think I shouldn’t get married until I can afford a honeymoon in Italy.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hmm get a partner who can then. It is a fair deal and what do they say about all being fair in love and all that 🙂

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  8. Nemorino avatar

    Looks like you’re having a great visit to Rome. I haven’t been back there for many years, but hope to return sometime.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Oh yes, Rome is grand. We are trying to gather all of its charm before we leave, if that is even possible. Here’s raising my glass to your return here.

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  9. Paula avatar

    I have never been. Thank you for bringing Rome to me, 😀 . Enjoy! xoxo

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Paula, Rome is utterly gorgeous and I shall try and bring more for you then. Thank you for the sweet words 🙂 xx

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  10. lifeofangela avatar

    Rome looks incredible! Definitely on my list to visit someday. Also, happy six year wedding anniversary 😀

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you for the wishes, my sweet! It is a beautiful beautiful city, my love, so please do. xx

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  11. Mad Hatters NYC avatar

    Lovely post! We, too, had an exceptional experience in Rome. And we were just talking with a friend over dinner about a bakery in Rome where we would join the long queue in the mornings to purchase bread or pastries and espresso before we set out for our daily adventures. Reading this reminds me of that wonderful trip far, far too long ago. ?

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hiya Lynn, we are floating from bakery to bakery during the day and gosh I am surely acquiring extra pastries in my body to tide me through winter! I shall have one more for you today 😛 And yes, there cannot be anything less than delirium when in Rome (yes I am gushing)! xx

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  12. comfykittea avatar

    I would love to visit Rome some day – the history, the art, the food…there must be so much so see! And the owner of the osteria, how sweet was that!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hiya Nina, thank you. He was a lovely Italian but they are so jovial and cordial here. Rome is for feeding the soul…when you find yourself here you shall possibly lap it all up. The history and art take it a notch and the food…the food is just divine 🙂 xx

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  13. Cherylene avatar

    I would love to visit Rome one day. It looks amazing.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Words fail it, Cherylene. If you can, put it on your must-visit list. xx

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      1. Cherylene avatar

        ? definitely!

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    2. B. avatar

      It is! Just magical!

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  14. lexandneek avatar

    Hey, this is Lex. Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed reading about your reveling through Rome. It brought back so many wonderful memories for me. I was there with my father in January 2001. We stayed at a hotel in Piazza Navona and I must concur: their gelato is legendary! Thank you so much for sharing this!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hi Lex, thank you for sharing your memory. For memories are everything, is it not? They are those little pouches of goodness you need to peek into from time to time. I bet you had a grand time with your father soaking in the elegance and beauty of the city. I will do a few more posts on it. For now I am trying not to get swept by the beauty of it, too far from shore 🙂 Here’s to more gelato till we leave it!

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  15. kasiawrites avatar

    Awww Rome! Take me back!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Indeed she wants to. She whispered in my ears last night. xx

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      1. kasiawrites avatar

        Sweet talker! ?

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  16. Stewie Overseas avatar

    You make Rome sounds so pretty and wonderful. I love reading about your adventures and seeing the way put them into words.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Lovely Jen, thank you! Ah come to Rome. I do not do anything special, you shall realise. The city will hug you with all its beauty. xx

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  17. thewonderer86 avatar

    Your excitement is palpable and so joyous! Have a great time in this beautiful city.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Tracey, it is difficult not to be infused by its charm. And yes, we miss Europe. How does one live away from it?! xx

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  18. travelgarb avatar

    Rome without the crowds! Perhaps this is the time to go.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Oh yes, though during the day, I might recant those words at certain spots 😛

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  19. afoodiehousewife avatar

    Ooooooooooooh Christmas in Rome…how very exciting! Lovely writing, pictures and trip. One foodie to another- How yummy is the food? I,for one loved it all but hubby was apprehensive of how rich everything there was. I remember, the breakfast buffet at our hotel had scrambled eggs FLOATING IN BUTTER. My goodness, we had never seen anything like that! Rome is just a traveler’s dream! Which other destinations are on your itinerary? Silly me…. You must be busy relaxing and having a blast so stop replying to the comments and have loads of fun girl! Have a grrrrrrrrreat time!!! xx

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      The city is too beautiful for words Mallika and the food…right now I am giving in wondrously to seafood and taking a break from the pizza and pasta but might dive back into the cheese tomorrow again 😉 Your husband is right. I think therein lies the reason why the Italian nonnas are big and hearty. One of my Italian friends eats like there shall be no tomorrow and puts me to shame. We were in Florence yesterday but returned to Rome. Soon we shall be in India and the heart is loathe to leave this beauty behind.
      I love your comments so keep them coming 🙂 Scrambled eggs doused in butter sounds delicious right now that I have just woken up after a late night of drinking with a friend and her partner here! Hope you had a lovely start to the week. xx

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  20. Angela avatar

    This sounds so perfectly romantic, I haven’t been to Rome since I visited with school. I’d love to go back with Mr. Happy Anniversary xo

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      I bet you would see things from a new perspective now 🙂 Every alley and corner spells romance…xx

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  21. TheresaBarker avatar

    Six years of marriage! Congratulations! One day you’ll have to tell us about how you met. So romantic, strolling through Rome, and I always enjoy your descriptions of exquisite meals. 🙂

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Theresa 🙂 I will do a post. You are sweet to express interest! It was romantic, oh so elegant, I cannot wait to write more. xx

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      1. TheresaBarker avatar

        {laughing} That’s so great, Dippy-Dotty Girl! I can’t wait. Maybe I will do the same one day. My husband and I’s story is a bit off the usual too. 🙂

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      2. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        I would love to read your story then Theresa. Sorry for the delay in the replies. I fall into my bed and that is where my feet rest after a long day of tripping around restaurants meeting friends and family. Have a wonderful Christmas. xx

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      3. TheresaBarker avatar

        That’s it then, I’ll have to write it. Our anniversary is coming up on New Year’s Eve, maybe I’ll write a post that day. [grin]

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      4. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        That’s it indeed and I will wait for it. I will make sure I am regular with my feed once I reach my home town, Calcutta, on the 29th 🙂 xx

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      5. TheresaBarker avatar

        Ah! I’d better get writing, New Year’s Eve is just in a few days! 🙂

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      6. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Yes yes it is 🙂 I will wait to read it milady. xx

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  22. Aman Thakur avatar

    nice…

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      1. Aman Thakur avatar

        You are welcome…:-)
        and you can visit my blog too…;-)

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  23. RhapsodyBoheme avatar

    Oh my heart…
    Your pictures and your words, true poetry and I so want to go. Right now…
    Thank you for letting me escape and by taking me there

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Oh thanks Margit. It is so beautiful, isn’t it?! You are a generous person…xx

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      1. RhapsodyBoheme avatar

        As are you my dear and I’m so happy you get to enjoy the magic of Rome. Xo

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  24. […] That is how we let it come to a grand end, in the shadow of the Duomo, you and I, humans humbled by the sheer superbness of it. Before we sit on the train that whisks us back to Rome. […]

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