Tango and Fireflies Among the Elms

I sat on the bench that Steve Kaplan had once sat on, my love by my side. The stifling heat of the day had been unbearable, and as much as we had let our senses be overwhelmed by the dazzling duo of chilled beer and jazz earlier on in the evening, it felt nice to just be. There was a hum in our heads and a hint of a breeze in the air as the clouds swooped in upon the strange hour of twilight which brings with it the twin emotions of contemplation and melancholia.

The lamps in the park twinkled as people hurried on, giving into the nudge from the darkening skies to find their way to the nearest shelter, because as surely as the stars that cling to the sky on crisp clear nights, a nasty spell was about to be unleashed upon us.

We, however, held on to the bench. I could feel peace stealing in upon me.

Was it the fact that we were enveloped in a cocoon of sorts in Central Park – that vast oasis of green which sits dab in the middle of Manhattan and yet seems far removed from the trammels of city life? I know not for sure but the sense of contentment that had been eluding me (both of us for that matter) for some time now, was just there, waiting to be embraced. A change is difficult. Getting used to a new environment is such an insidious process. You might think you can work it all out in your mind, and go about falling in love with a new place in an organised way, but some things in life just do not go according to plan, do they?

The man on the neighbouring bench stared intently at something so I squinted at whatever he was staring at. Oh, but it was a firefly, and he was trying his best to trap it in the cupped hollow of his hands. We whirled around, and why behind us in the woods, there was an orchestra of luminescence.

Whimpers of gold as those busy fireflies went about finding their soulmates, for do you know that they emit optical signals to attract mates? Some are deceived in this battlefield of courting because they are lured by the honey traps of femme fatales – the carnivorous females who lure lovesick males and simply gobble them up. How many had found their true mates on that summer evening and how many had been lost their lives, who knows, but it was all for love. And oh so magical.

In tandem with the fireflies, the immediate world around us was full of little pieces of joy. Like the many acts that come together to make a play count. We just had to look.

A couple walked by with their two cuddly daughters tucked into a double buggy and smitten by their rainbow cones of joy. Ice lollies to beat the heat of the day. Perfect. But one of those errant lollies took a toss – and the little girl who was the proud owner, her face crumpled up.

Before she could let loose a wail upon the world at large, her father dived to the ground. He picked up the cone, gave it a brush, and handed it right back to her. You should have seen the look on her face (of pure delight), ours (aghast) and her father’s (sheepish) as he turned around to us grinning, ‘All’s well. The five-second rule guys!’

A heartbeat away, at the south end of the part of the park called the Mall, two literary greats sat far, far away from home. Sir Walter Scott and Robert Burns. One stared at us moodily and the other gazed into the sky dreamily all poised to write on his scrolls of paper. Nearby stood Columbus, that lousy navigator who aimed for the East Indies and landed up in the West Indies. That man gives me hope. So what if I have a woeful sense of direction? Look where it took Columbus. Now he stands along with the Bard in that part of Central Park known as the Literary Walk staring every Saturday at clusters of couples dancing the tango in their heels and pretty dresses.

You can find them every weekend, those dancing divas and their hopelessly dressed men, regardless of thunder and lightning, rain and hail. As we found out soon enough to the tune of all with the exception of hail. We stood beneath the branches of a massive tree and huddled beneath my small plaid umbrella, which is only as effectual as pretty little things are, got wet, giggled and wondered aloud about tango in the rain.

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Street lamps light up the south end of the Mall in Central Park.
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Far from the lochs and glens of Scotland, here he sits on the Literary Walk…
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…along with fellow Scot, Burns
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Columbus
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Tango in the park beneath the eagle eyes of the Bard
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Just before it poured buckets.
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And that’s just about the power of green.

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  1. The Obsession Begins avatar

    Once again, beautiful photos!!!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you sweetheart 🙂 xx

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  2. Dina avatar

    What a lovely narrative! I sit in the shade in Norway and can practically feel the heat from New York, than the freshness of the greens, the music, the happy people. Life is good. Now it starts to rain. How wonderful refreshing. Precious drops from above.
    Aren’t we lucky to live on a continent with a rainy season all year round. ??
    Hugs to you from Oslo x

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hah I shall take that lovely comment and feel the freshness of it just like the rains that enveloped us that day. It is hot here, Dina. Quite so. The humidity is the cherry. Yet that Central Park stole my heart. I could see why everyone goes a bit gaga over it. Hugs from Bayonne xx

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      1. Dina avatar

        I’d love to to see it one day??

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      2. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        May it be soon then! 🙂 xx

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      3. Dina avatar

        Keep your fingers crossed, pleeeeease❣️?xx

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      4. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Oh yeah they shall be in a permanent crossed position till you turn up! xx

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  3. Ngan & Chi avatar

    Your writing is absolutely beautiful. It’s as if you are crafting a painting through words, and I can see and feel it! I haven’t been to Central Park, but I can imagine how it would be a peaceful thinking place in the heart of a city that never sleeps. Thanks for sharing 🙂

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      How lovely of you Chi, much appreciated. It is easy to fall in love with it, and the thing is, I did not expect to 🙂 xx

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  4. vintagetearose avatar

    Great photos, and I loved your descriptive account of your experience, very stirring 🙂

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you 🙂 Makes my day! xx

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  5. usathroughoureyes avatar

    Great photos and your writing lets us check it on google to see the area. Thank you.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you! 🙂 I hope you like what you see on google xx

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      1. usathroughoureyes avatar

        Yes it is amazing. Thank you.

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  6. crystalsandcurls avatar

    Aw I love this; it feels like a little window into your day. The mental imagery of people tangoing in the rain is a particular favourite of mine!x

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Maybe we should check it out, tango in the rain, must be something special eh? 🙂 xx

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  7. Cheila avatar

    If I didn’t know you at all and had no idea what Central Park was, I would feel the need to go there because of your words. You turn everything into something magic. Now, enough with the cheesy stuff. I thought YOU were going to tango. I’m very disappointed. Misleading tittle.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you darling. If this be cheesy, why I love cheesy. Cheesy is also the sound of the awful Bollywood songs I can break into (mostly to annoy Adi and it works every time without fail). You come visit us and we can walk to Central Park arm-in-arm. We can dress up in Jane Austen gowns too for added effect. And I will tango with you. Adi has two left feet and does not want to be caught dancing. Maybe I should blackmail him into taking classes with me? The last time I learnt salsa and jive in Delhi, I was partnered up with a sweet short guy who insisted on stepping on my feet without missing them. Maybe Adi can do better 😉 xx

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      1. iwannabealady avatar

        May I get in the Jane Austen gowns and walking arm in arm? What a freaking dream that would be. Except it’d have to be in the fall. It’s so hot! Can you imagine they wore those gowns and the men wore suits no matter the weather. We must all seem like whiny babies now. I walk around half naked most of the time, lol. But seriously, we need to find you a better partner than dude with the abusive feet.

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      2. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        The more the better. We can then walk in twos and three and laugh daintily into our silk handkerchiefs while we discuss gothic novels and the rakes about town. The gowns are essential though. We do it in fall, yeah, when the leaves shall go flaming red and waft around us in poetic glory.

        I had two partners. When the first step-on-her-feet one left to get married, the second one turned out to be humongous and smelly. All in all, enough to make me stop enjoying my evenings of training!

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      3. iwannabealady avatar

        Good grief, child. How unfortunate.

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    2. iwannabealady avatar

      I think, at the very least, she’s going to be annoying Adi tonight with pleas to just give it a try in their living room. Probably a lot of random body jerking and rubbing his chest with a flower for dramatic effect. But seriously, the tango is a beautiful dance. Maybe one day we’ll see a post about her joining her first tango competition, hehe.

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      1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Hahahaha no chance of that my love. The boy be lying on a couching bingeing on Wolverine and the mutant series. He won’t be doing anything of the sort that needs him to budge his body anywhere.

        The tango is so gorgeous and sensual. I could just watch couples do the tango with my mouth hanging open. I shall leave you with that charming picture xx

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      2. Cheila avatar

        That would be awesome. And they say dancing lessons are a fun and great activity for married couples. She could also bribe him with food or hikes. He likes that.

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      3. iwannabealady avatar

        Or drug him, whatever works lol. Speaking of dancing, I’m very overdue for a night of it. Think I’m getting old or something?

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      4. Cheila avatar

        Not at all. Just busy

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      5. iwannabealady avatar

        Adulthood is cramping my style a little bit

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      6. iwannabealady avatar

        What about you. Do you dance?

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      7. Cheila avatar

        Not at all. Too shy. Extremely shu

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      8. iwannabealady avatar

        Okay, you’re going to have to put dancing in my living room once a week on your list of personal goals ?

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      9. Cheila avatar

        I wanna learn poll dancing or burlesque. As an activity not for Rui

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      10. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Both sound lovely and burlesque ooh la la. Why don’t you actually enroll yourself in one of them once your exams are over? xx

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      11. Cheila avatar

        I might 🙂

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      12. iwannabealady avatar

        I took a few classes before actually. It’s really nice. I ended up buying a package because it came out to be cheaper and also you learn a choreographed routine that way.

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      13. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        In ballroom, burlesque or pole dancing? I learnt street dancing for a while and I loved the sass of it more than ballroom.

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      14. iwannabealady avatar

        Oh sorry, I took pole dancing. I never took ballroom either, but I’ve did modern dance for a little while

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      15. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        I missed out on that entire thread and I realise that now 😛 What you recommended Cheila, I am putting into mine too, the dancing around the living room bit. I tried it with Adi the other day and I thought he would dislocate my shoulder. So I told him to just quietly return to the couch.

        Pole dancing is quite sassy too. Must be working out those quads wonderfully. I think we might have tried a similar genre in street/modern dance? Sounds similar.

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      16. iwannabealady avatar

        Is street also called hip-hop dance? Modern is similar to lyrical. It adds elements from that and ballet and jazz. It’s a mutt, but beautiful.

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      17. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Street throws in hip-hop and elements from ballet and jazz. So it is a sister of modern per say. I remember the jazz hands, pirouettes and the hopeless attempts to achieve splits with some fondness.

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      18. iwannabealady avatar

        Well, that is quite a mix indeed! I feel like if I’m going to go dancing, I’m going to want a week’s notice.

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      19. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Hahaha hmm true. I would run endlessly around the park till I get ’em jelly legs 😛

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      20. Cheila avatar

        I might do it 🙂

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      21. iwannabealady avatar

        Yayyy! Thats a start. I definitely think you should go for it. You’re going to feel so sexy and strong. ?

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      22. Cheila avatar

        Thank you for your advice, gorgeous

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      23. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Done and dusted with! Entered into my little brown diary 😉

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      24. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        I used to be shy too. But shake it out C, you can do it. Once I shook off mine and went for these dance classes, I got me wings almost.

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      25. Cheila avatar

        I need to try some dance classes. And Rui can dance

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      26. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        So what are ya waiting for my love! xx

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      27. Cheila avatar

        I don’t know, hun

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      28. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        That just stopped in my tracks, haha!

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      29. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        I have not gone dancing in a year or more! At one point I used to go out every weekend. Sigh. Must be the process of maturing like fine wine? 😛 Dancing for hours on stilettos…surely there is a better alternative. Popcorn on the couch. Aaaah. Now we are talkin’

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      30. iwannabealady avatar

        We are slowly becoming the ones we used to mock. Next thing you know, we’ll be wearing flats to a party. (Insert fearful shivering)

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      31. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Shocking state of affairs indeed! Maybe we should nibble on a few pastries to not faint 😉 And then strap on the party shoes.

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      32. iwannabealady avatar

        Ohhh, you’re a bad influence! I’ll take the pastries. Let’s go hide behind an artificial plant to nibble like criminals, hehe.

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      33. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        Right on sister, it shall be grand and that I can prophesy!

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  8. Beyoutiful avatar

    Central Park is such a serene as well as a lively place to visit! Perfect place to just take a walk and admire Mother Nature on a beautiful summer day 🙂 Nice post!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you 🙂 You are right, both serene and lively. Just the balance that does it xx

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    2. iwannabealady avatar

      You make a good point about how it’s both serene and lively.

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  9. fraziersracket avatar

    I love Central Park! I can picture every one of your descriptions! I try to make a stroll through any time I’m in New York. Very picturesque in winter, covered in snow! Glad you had a nice time, but damn that humidity after the rain! Yikes!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      I can imagine why you, and everyone I have met, have fallen for it. Thank you for the lovely compliments…I cannot wait to see it dressed up in snow 🙂

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  10. lexandneek avatar

    Ha ha! Only a father would invoke that 5 second rule! Very funny. My sister-in-law would laugh at that (she has two children under 10). Lovely blogpost. What is that cottage in your last photo? Beautiful!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thanks 🙂 Isn’t that cottage so quaint and pretty? I wondered too. Could have been a church… Unfortunately the thunder and lightning came in the way. I intend to make good the next time I am in Central Park.

      Rather a chilled-out father or are all parents like that? 😛 My parents would have whacked me if I had done anything of the sort.

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      1. lexandneek avatar

        Oh yes! It does look like a church. Perhaps so. It must be pretty humid with the rain. We have a friend living in the outskirts of New York but have yet to hear what the summers are like.

        I was pretty surprised that the mother let him do that! It must have been a very valuable popsicle 😉

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      2. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

        I think the father was too quick for the mother to react.

        Apparently the weather here has changed since 2011 – or so someone told us the other day. It has become more humid over the years. And as you can well imagine, there is nothing more charming than humidity.

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  11. thewonderer86 avatar

    How lovely it all is. Your words. The park. Life.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Tracey! Lovely comment 🙂 xx

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  12. lifeofangela avatar

    You have a way of making whatever you’re doing seem magical 🙂
    You and Adi definitely should have joined in tangoing 😀

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hahaha I am picturing Adi doing the tango and keeling with laughter. My baby’s strong point is dancing like Joey you know. So I should sneak in dance classes into our routine maybe 😉 Thank you for the lovely comment btw xx

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  13. Virginia Duran avatar

    More delicious bites of Central Park! Thanks for bringing me there with you today. Also, I have never seen bigger rats than those of the park, not even in London ?

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      I did not see rats! And thank goodness for that. I will watch out next time. The last time I saw a big one was while dining in this massively popular pizzeria in Rome. Baffeto. We were sharing a table with a French couple and all four of us leapt off our seats. Some Italian boys seated behind us happened to make fun of us till the French girl shut them up with a terse comment 😉

      The rats of CP must be pretty well fed too 😀

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  14. arealwookie avatar

    I love reading your stories Arundhati…spunky, full of wit, and sprinkled with a little sass 🙂

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Bruce! How have you been? Hope you are going great guns with cycling.

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  15. danyadarling avatar

    Powerful imagery.

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Deanna 🙂 xx

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  16. Stewie Overseas avatar

    A beautiful piece of writing. As always 🙂

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  17. RhapsodyBoheme avatar

    Simply beautiful, from the pictures to your captivating words and really enjoyed reading this. Thank you for sharing xo

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you milady! Chuffs me to hear such lovely words xx

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      1. RhapsodyBoheme avatar

        Anytime xo ?

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  18. neveradullbling avatar

    You tell a beautiful story. I can picture it perfectly. ☺

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      You are a darling for saying that Paula! xx

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  19. thinkinkadia avatar

    There you go charming the world with your dreamy sequences! Im sure you have a bollywoodian connection past the songs …
    Beautiful words like the fireflies!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Su! That is such a sweet comment. Bollywood is an inspiration always for cheesy lines too. “Aao baby, baba ke kaan main aanke kahon” – where do you think it is from? 😉

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      1. thinkinkadia avatar

        Hmm, cool! Buttt dont take all the credddit. Humm nacheez bhi koi cheesy sey kum nahi! Muahahaa!
        Iss cheez ko yaad rakhna,
        bolly wood Baby!?

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  20. thehuntandpeckblog avatar

    Pure bliss…your visit to the park…me reading about it..it’s like being there…the pics are lovely. A great post!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      So lovely of you to be in the moment with me. Thank you. You must be a dreamer xx

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      1. thehuntandpeckblog avatar

        Sure am ?

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  21. Gabe Burkhardt avatar

    One of the things I enjoy most about my visits to your blog is the way your prose forces me to stop and immerse myself in your world. For a few brief moments, I was in Central Park, watching a father deftly manage an ice cream crisis. This is a gift.

    And of the photos, isn’t it rare to catch a single person occupying and entire frame in NYC? especially one lined with benches waiting to be lounged in?

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Hello hello my friend, I was just checking your blog yesterday for updates and I see it today! Looking forward to hopping over to yours right after.

      It is a rare pleasure that – to catch a single individual slouching against one of those benches. You got that alright. The power of inclement weather?

      You are too kind to me, Gabe. Hey but I shall take it all with a delighted grin. When I have taken off my foot mask, I might do a little jig too 🙂

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  22. TheresaBarker avatar

    I loved the “just before it poured buckets” photo! And the first one with street lamps. You have a unique way to put magic into your travel observations, dippy dotty girl! 🙂

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank ye Theresa, and as always I appreciate your words 🙂 xx

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  24. Kurian avatar

    Nice read. Thanks

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you Kurian 🙂

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  25. The Anti-Oxidant Blog avatar

    Nice article. Keep writing. Goodluck!

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  26. ragtimecyclist avatar

    Lovely. Particularly: “…the immediate world around us was full of little pieces of joy. Like the many acts that come together to make a play count. We just had to look.”

    What a great line!

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    1. Dippy-Dotty Girl avatar

      Thank you 🙂 We are trying to make the best of the move though we miss our English country adventures intensely.

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